What Do Women Want?

Choc candy and roses

Okay, class. First things first: Guys, you can read along. But you have to bring chocolate. Now that we’ve got that straight, lemme say this:

I’m sick to death of the party of Bill Clinton, Bob Filner, Anthony Weiner, John Edwards, Eliot Spitzer, and the Chappaquidick Kid telling anyone how to treat anyone, anywhere, in any context. Particularly women.

While we’re on the topic, ever notice how DemoLibs policies and politics routinely treat women as if we’re: 1) Stupid 2) Brainless 3) Sheeple 4) Stupid 5) Helpless 6) Hopeless 7) Stupid 8) Mind-numbed monoliths, and oh yeah: Stupid.

DemoLibs rarely wrap “women’s issues” in a whole-person narrative that includes mind, will, skill, soul, expertise or ability. Nope. According to your average DemoLib, women are only interested in access to abortion, “free” birth-control or government sponsored “free” healthcare. We’re not interested in issues like government spending and infringement of our Constitutional rights. Unemployment. National security.  Taxes, crime, foreign policy. Secure borders. Education. Or the impact of government debt on our children and grandchildren.

Like that’s not patronizing or anything.

The typical DemoLib mantra that supposedly appeals to women goes something like:

“Those big meanie conservatives are cutting government programs that help women and children. DemoLibs are the Party of Compassion. Don’t you worry your pretty little head about minor details like thinking for yourself or assuming responsibility for your own actions and decisions. We’ll take care of that for you with bigger government, more government programs and higher taxes to pay for it all.”

Like that’s not patronizing or anything again.

While we’re on the subject, how does creating and cultivating a permanent dependency class translate into treating anyone with dignity and respect? Since when does “compassion” equal increased numbers on the government dole?

That’s not “compassion.” That’s serfdom.


So, what do most Real Women want? Here’s the short list (in no particular order):

  • Integrity
  • Honesty
  • Commitment
  • Kindness
  • Virtue
  • Valor
  • Grace
  • Hershey’s (with almonds)

Here’s the Other Short List. And here’s the Micro Short Version. Neither version is gender-specific. Just sayin’.

Speaking of a few things that need to be said, ladies, here are a few more. Throwin’ these in for free. (Guys, you can read along. But you still have to bring chocolate.)

  1. Most Real Men want pretty much the same thing. Savvy?
  2. You don’t get any of the above by declaring war on men or waging legislative or cultural search and destroy missions on the testosterone brigade. That’s just dumb.
  3.  Stop talking like a sailor. Dig up a decent vocabulary. Use it.
  4. Stop blaming everyone else for your poor choices. Assume personal responsibility for your own decisions and actions.
  5. Stop expecting government to be your sugar daddy.
  6. If you want to be treated like a lady, act like one. And put some clothes on, for heaven’s sake!

One last question. Ladies, if you’re still a dyed-in-the-wool DemoLib, What the heck is wrong with you?